According to a new National Gallup Poll, the majority of Americans now favor legal gay marriage:
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In a recent interview with Christian magazine World, the president of Focus on the Family Jim Daly confessed that his side has "probably lost" the fight against same sex marriage:
"We're losing on that one, especially among the 20- and 30-somethings: 65 to 70 percent of them favor same-sex marriage. I don't know if that's going to change with a little more age—demographers would say probably not. We've probably lost that. I don't want to be extremist here, but I think we need to start calculating where we are in the culture."
"We've got to look at what God is doing in all of this…Have we done such a poor job with marriage, is He so upset with our mishandling of it in the Christian community, along with our lust of the flesh as a nation, that He is handing us over to this polygamy and same-sex situation in order to, perhaps, drive the Christian community, the remnant, into saying, 'OK, there's no no-fault divorce in our church?'"
Focus on the Family is a Christian ministry that helps families and couples to build healthy marriages that reflect God’s design. Also helping parents to raise their children according to morals and values based on biblical principles.
Daly also commented on gay activists view of Christian marriage:
"I sat down with one. He said, 'you guys haven't done so well with marriage. Why are you upset about us having a try?' We've got to look at our own house, make sure that our marriages are healthy, that we're being a good witness to the world. Then we can continue to work on defending marriage as best as we can."
Devin Newkirk, a substitute teacher who is gay, states this information does not come as a surprise.
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Newkirk also considered himself religious and spiritual.
He continues, “Those who are supportive of same sex marriage realized this and have set judgment aside for the sake of there loved ones and for friends and coworkers that they know closely. And so they have fulfilled what God has commanded and judged not...lest they be judged and met with the same measure that they measured.”
The results from the National Poll have also brought hope and inspirations to many people.
Leon Acord said via twitter:
“This is why it is SO important to come out.”
Amanda Cutter also said via twitter:
“It's time lawmakers stood up for marriage fairness...”
There have been many reactions to this new poll but the Pew Research Center’s Forum on Religion & Public Life revealed a similar like poll in 2010.
“Polls this year have found that more Americans favor allowing gays and lesbians to marry legally than did so just last year. In two polls conducted over the past few months, based on interviews with more than 6,000 adults, 42% favor same-sex marriage while 48% are opposed. In polls conducted in 2009, 37% favored allowing gays and lesbians to marry legally and 54% were opposed. For the first time in 15 years of Pew Research Center polling, fewer than half oppose same-sex marriage.”
The Pew Research Center’s Forum on Religion & Public Life purpose is to search and promote a deeper better understanding of the connections of religion and public affair issues.
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The poll also provides data on how different religions are becoming more in favor of gay marriage.
“The shift in opinion on same-sex marriage has been broad-based, occurring across many demographic, political and religious groups. Notably, pluralities of white mainline Protestants and white Catholics now favor allowing gays and lesbians to marry legally – the first time this has occurred in Pew Research Center surveys.”
Same- Sex marriage is currently allowed in the few states: Connecticut, Iowa, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, Vermont, in addition to Washington D.C.
Based upon research and polls American views are changing but with the debate in California shows that there is an opposing side trying to stop and eliminate gay marriage.
However you look at it people views are changing. It just depends which side of the issue you stand on if you consider these changes are for the better or worse.
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